*bloop*

The Grand Old Lady has left the House — 1913-2007 aged 94. Granny left us tonight - a little past the first hour of the day. My gran was a fighter, I would daresay she was a little chilli padi in her time.

Born during the First World War, she lost my Grandfather during the Second World War aged 28. Raised 5 kids through the war, initially with the help of her mother in law, but when the latter passed away, she was left alone, with neighbours’ help. After that it was a matter of time before my uncles grew up and went to work. My eldest uncle and my second uncle left us before she. I guess now she knows. And I guess now, after nearly 70 years of being apart from the man she loved so dearly, they’re finally together forever.

I can almost see my Granddad, now in his Singapore Volunteer Corps uniform, medals gleaming, beaming as he gives her a big big hug, as he welcomes her to his side for eternity. There are so many things I remember about my por-por. I wish i could write them all down. In a way i’m relieved she’s finally let go; she held on to life so tightly, even till the end. Even when cancer tried to consume her beyond her 90th birthday, she held on, when her eyes and ears failed her she still insisted on going to the loo alone, bathing alone. My grandmother was a tough nut. I’ll miss her. But the tears will have to be saved for another day, right now i’m the only son my mummy has around her. I can’t let her down.

Dearest Por-Por, you’ve lived a long long vibrant life, raised 5 wonderful children, had 11 grand children, and 18 great grand children. I for 1 will speak tales of you and your heroic hubby for as long as I live. Rest in Peace. Bye, Por-Por.